*After several sessions and exploring some of the issues I thought were tormenting me, I discovered the root cause of many of them. It was something that I could not actually focus on, on my own. I didn't have the capabilities to really concentrate on what really mattered. In my case it was that I was concentrating on external situations and not really focusing on myself. When I realised that the work had to be done internally, I started to get to know and understand myself. Then I fully understood where the problem was and got support from Maria to find tools to address it. I enjoyed the process which is good!* EC *Maria helped me understand so much more about myself than I had in previous therapies (CBT, EMDR and talking therapy). Her gentle, calm approach is coupled with real insight and knowledge, the techniques we used helped me heal past traumas and create a deeper connection and compassion for myself. I can't recommend her enough.* JE
*When I first came to Maria and her coaching I wasn't really sure what I was looking for, nor did I have a sense of what I wanted to achieve but I knew I needed some help in understanding my patterns of behaviour and the impact they have on my life. Maria was warm, open and compassionate and I felt secure and supported in exploring aspects of myself that I had suppressed, ignored or distracted myself from for a long time. Maria has helped me to recognise the positive qualities which I have within me and how I can use those to live a healthier, calmer and more fulfilling life.* D
*Working with Maria was a great inspiration, to enable me to look at my inner struggles and anxieties with deep empathy and new understanding. Each session Maria was well prepared, offering a beautiful artistic path to go on together. At the same time she was completely open to what my needs were. Each session became a milestone on my inner journey, slowly freeing myself from my past, embracing it and being able to own even the difficult parts in myself. I am so grateful for the practices she offered me, they are my new lifejacket for life - a way to be able to help myself when life triggers me and I feel overwhelmed. I feel a new inner ground has grown in me, these ten weeks of coaching and has given me new confidence. I feel my joy has come back into my life! Thank you for your great help Maria!* K.
*I want to share my huge gratitude again for your capacity to be in tune with where I am at right now...I feel like you understand what it is like and that you are reacting to it very sensitively. It felt so reassuring to see your confidence and trust in the process...* ND
Must you always have to wear a mask and be a superhero?
Welcome, men.
I see how hard it is for you to find your way in the world, especially after relationship breakups.
Where you either feel resentment and anger towards your ex(es) or you bitterly blame yourself – or both
You’re not sure how you're meant to be, how you’re meant to recover your equilibrium
You’ve lost your joie de vivre and you are scared to try again, to let anyone see your wounded heart
Your sense of powerful masculinity feels broken (or maybe you wonder if you ever found it in the first place)
Your confidence might be good in some areas of life but when it comes to relationships your confidence has virtually disappeared
You’ve given up trying to understand how to make a woman (and yourself) happy
You are wondering if a woman even exists who will be what you need and want
You experience deep loneliness and/or confusion, despair, depression
You might have an addiction to substances, work/busy-ness, porn, entertainment, etc
You suffer from a deep experience of failure, of not being good enough
You suffer with social anxiety and shyness
And yet with all that going on, you think you’re supposed to figure it all out on your own.
But imagine…
Accessing all the skills you need to build a relationship with someone who will fully appreciate, respect and desire you
Moving through life with an authentic, natural self-assurance
Not needing to hide anything about who you really are
Feeling confident and decisive with feminine beings, including the times when you aren’t sure what she needs or wants
Your masculinity, your authentic power, comes to you naturally without misusing it
Being able to attract a feminine partner who is playful, open, and ready for the kind of fulfilling, exciting, loving partnership you desire and deserve.
The woman who appreciates and respects you deeply, desires you, freely surrenders to you sexually, is a woman who feels seen, understood, and deeply loved for who she is. A woman who feels safe with you because you are also willing to do the emotional work on yourself - you don’t run from your own shadows but know how you want to work with them.
It truly can be different for you
Here’s what you can access from deep within yourself through coaching with Maria:
*A man who knows, respects, and understands himself. You are confident, grounded, open, and authentic. You’re comfortable in your own skin. You accept and respect your wounds, weaknesses, pain, shame and all parts of yourself. That doesn’t make you feel insecure about yourself – rather you have the easy confidence of a man who knows himself and has nothing to hide. You’re not afraid to continue working with your self-growth as you know you’re a work in progress like everyone else. Your self-awareness and self-acceptance enables you to become the powerful, adaptive, masculine, warm and loving man you are meant to be.
*An integrated man. A man who is not ruled by the conventions society has taught - to suppress, ignore and resist your emotions, especially your ‘negative’ ones. You navigate your inner world with skill, allowing you to be the master of your own life and relationships.
*A masterful communicator. This man has learned how to artfully communicate his needs and wants to everyone in his life. You take full self-ownership in conflict resolution conversations. You listen in a way that makes the woman in front of you feel safe and seen and loved, leading her to respect and desire you so she can relax into her playful, adoring, sexually open nature.
Although all inner growth takes time, there can be some big shifts very early on in your coaching process!
Hello, I’m Maria!
I’m a Personal and Relationship Transformation Coach, having trained with the VITA (Vital and Integrated Tantra Approach) Institute. I’m also a Dance and Movement Psychotherapist and a Yoga Teacher.
I deeply believe and have experienced first-hand that incredible relationships exist when we have the right awareness, mindset, commitment, knowledge and support.
After journeying through years of my own relationship struggles and also years of training in this area, it has become my life’s joyful mission to support others to also create beautiful, profoundly fulfilling love in their lives.
My deepest delight is to support men in this area, as I see that you have a hard time in society these days – to be a ‘new man’, emotionally awake - but also to be strong and capable and not to have any ‘negative’ emotions or needs. How do you navigate through this puzzle?? How do you create healthy, intimate, trusting relationships?
My approach
My deep respect and profound understanding of men means I behold you: that part of you that struggles and doesn’t know how to engage with a feminine partner any more, the anxious lonely part of you; and also the depth of you that is longing to be your best self, to become more fully yourself in all your beautiful masculine, loving, powerful, authentic being.
I will truly help you to access this undeniable part of your deep self with:
*skillfully-directed questions to help you access both your old stuck beliefs (the blocks that stop you from being able to access all that you are), and your powerful and profound capacities too
*breath work (the breath is the little-known access to the subconscious and to your own power!)
*meditations to help you find the deeper parts of yourself
*powerful processes, tools, and techniques to help you work through the limitations that stop you and to access the mindset that will ensure your success
*body movement and sound, which can awaken a deeper part of yourself to help release any trauma and wounding and limiting beliefs about yourself/women/the world
*practices for you to work with between sessions (‘homeplay’ rather than ‘homework’)
My commitment to you as your coach
I will be a partner to you, to help you find and cultivate your own inner wisdom and strengths
I will ask you unique, intentional questions that will lead you to your own action-oriented answers
I will guide you towards your personal process of de-armouring the wounded, limiting parts of you so you don’t need to be disconnected from yourself any more
I will help you open the door to re-wire your nervous system so that you can acknowledge, accept and love all that you are – so you learn to integrate and step into your own beautiful authenticity
I will teach you how to discover your own strengths and cultivate a deep inner trust so that you can make the empowered, confident, and bold decisions to claim the life and love you are meant for
I will help you to find that masculine leadership that has the magnetic potential to attract a partner worthy of you.
This is how it works
Book your free 60-minute initial consultation call with me HEREto see how it feels to work with me. I'll help you find a way forward even with this one call. If you want to go deeper, great. No obligation. There I will tell you about the pricing and packages available for you for easier payments.
If you do take the step to creating the life you can only dream of, this is what will happen:
Each 12-week program is created specifically to the unique needs of the man I’m working with.
You’ll have a 60-minute zoom online session with me each week.
If you would like even deeper transformation, having a practice, action, and/or focus during the week between sessions can help consolidate your learning and discoveries.
Email contact between sessions is also encouraged as another way I can support you, another way you can foster your growth, if you wish.
Your package will also include a 15-minute phone call or zoom if you need it, between sessions. These calls can be longer but will be charged if more than 15 minutes long.
THANK YOU. Not only am I a passionate and experienced Coach for men, but as a woman, I have a deep abiding respect and appreciation for you. I am deeply aware of the barriers that society, poor family examples, emotionally-unstable relationships can wreak on the confidence and stability of a man in these difficult times.
But you understand the power and know how essential it is to be all in, investing in yourself, becoming the type of grounded, capable, embodied, wise, powerful man that we need so desperately in this world. I long to help give you the best possible start to finding a deep and abiding love with a lover and partner.
And I am all in to support you!
Joyfully looking forward to seeing you uncover your transformative power,